I got the pro and anti sides backwards for Virginia, but you get the picture.
Besides, who cares if Virginia wants to be a socially conservative area? If it's the majorities will, and constitutional, than so be it. If someone doesn't like it than they can;
A) Run for government, win, and change the laws;
B) Deal with it, living in the state and accepting that if they want to get an abortion for their lesbian partner after their gay marriage than they'll probably need to go out of state for it; or
C) Just move.
It's a free country.
The problem with Virginia is that the GOP gained control of the Senate based on a manipulation of the rules. The Senate is evenly split 20 seats each. However the Lieutenant Governor casts the deciding vote in all matters except budgetary. As such, the Dems pushed for a co-operative situation, where committees were put together with even numbers, and co-chairs, or split the committees between the two parties, some with Dem control, some with GOP control. But the GOP balked, forced a vote, and since the Lt. Gov. cast the deciding vote, Bob's your uncle.
The voter breakdown doesn't support a majority stance in either case. For the most part it is a state in flux, but the socially conservative agenda is only coming forth due to playing with the rules, not because the voters want it that way. A tale of two states, the conservative south, and the moderate north.
But Virginia does matter, because it is a swing state. For years it was a certainty that it would put forth a GOP win. But in 2008, due mainly to the shift in demographics Obama was able to swing the vote. And if the GOP wants to play the social conservative agenda, alienating the moderates, then they are shooting themselves in the foot while stepping on a land mine.
I really have no use for either party, as neither can focus on what needs to be done. I watched the Dems piss away every opportunity to succeed during the Bush Administration, I've watched the Obama Administration underachieve, given the historic nature. And I've watched teh GOP get hijacked by a vocal minority of extreme right, giving up the center where any party needs to build support in order to get elected.